Sexuality: Life Choice or Way of Life

Sexuality; a VERY sensitive subject, when in fact it shouldn't be sensitive at all. Homosexuality is every. Everyone should just begin to accept it(I wish!), because it will never go away.

Personally, I believe that true homosexuality is not a choice. I have a very close friend, and from as early as they can remember, they've been attracted to the same sex. (I'm talking grade school here, where they knew nothing about sexuality.) People should not be ridiculed and bullied on a daily basis because of something that God did to make them different.

Yeah, I know some of you are saying that it's wrong and a sin and all of that stuff, but if you weren't raised in a house that promoted those views, you would not feel that way. If you were raised in a home that accepted homosexuality, you would too, so what's the difference?

*****(And yes, I do understand that some homosexuals do things that draw bad attention to themselves, but that's no reason to judge them.

Southern states, I feel, are the worst about this. They are so stuck in there way that they can't accept anyone who isn't a ,for lack of a better word, "pure" southerner. Not trying to trash the South, though. I myself am from Mississippi. )*****

Enough of my rant. Back to the subject...

For some people though, it's a definite choice. I think that some people just say that they're gay because they feel like it'll give them some sort if edge or something. (Who wants that kind of attention?!)

For the most part, though, the latter doesn't happen very often. For 93% if people, sexuality is NOT a choice. The sooner we realize this, the better. We need to just lighten up, and let people live their lives! (Easier said than done, I know.

I know this blog probably won't change anyone's views on the subject, but I do hope that it makes you aware if the fact that people don't choose their sexuality. Look it up. Ask people. Actually be interested and learn instead of being oblivious to the subject and judging someone because its what everyone else is doing.

Hakuna Matata! 😌✌


I would really like to discuss this with some people and here your views, so comment away!

Crushes: Healthy or Horrible?

Okay.. So we ALL have or have a had crush before. Someone that we know that we could never have. (Whether it be that they're straight and you're gay(or vice versa), they're in a relationship with someone else, or they're just out of your league.) We think about them 24/7, smile whenever they're around, and get all warm inside when they so much as speak to us. Well.. I'm here to talk about how I feel about this.

It's complete and utter CRAP! It's the most horrible thing ever, if you ask me! If you're like me, when you have a crush, you don't think about ANYONE other than person. You can have a million other people asking you out, but you completely ignore them. I do it, but I admit that it is the craziest thing ever.. You have people out there that probably care about you a great deal, but you'll never know because you're stuck on someone who probably doesn't even notice you half of the time.

"But.. They'll like me one day!" . . I'm not trying to be a downer or crush anyone's dreams, but no.. They probably won't. Given that there are some cases that you end up with your crush (Lucky! 😞) most of us will never end up with our crush.

So why is that we focus so hardly on them? (I guess the heart wants what it can't have.)

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you're doing, even if the other person isn't doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it's a crush that you haven't even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there -- you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else's. But you don't know why. You don't know that you're doing it. You'd follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.” ― David Levithan

Personally, I think that if you have a crush, and you've had a crush on this person for a long time and neither of you are making a move, you need to move on. Sitting there fantasizing about what could have just makes you really sad that you don't have what you're fantasizing about. (Make sense?)
Go out there and find someone that's going to love and care about you as much as they do! Trust me, they're out there! Because mine was! But you won't find that person unless you let the fantasy go and look for it. You probably won't even have to look hard. He or she will be RIGHT THERE! ❤💙

This is merely my opinion and in no way should be the only factor you use in living your life. (That's your choice.) if you want to keep crushing, you go right ahead! 😁

(If any of you do happen to take my advise and move on, I would love to know how it goes. 👍😊)

Hakuna Matata! ✌

(P.S. If you want me to talk about a certain thing, just let me know in the comments)

Hi, guys!

Well, this is my first time EVER writing a blog, so I won't be that good at it at first. (Cut me some slack, okay?) I was just reading a blog earlier and thought, "Hey! I can could definitely write a blog." So! Here it is! (Yay)

I felt like I should use this first post to kinda introduce myself, I guess.. And tell what I'm usually gonna post about.

Let's start!

My name is gonna be a secret for now(I need the mystery factor). I'll probably eventually give you my full name, but for now, just call me N. Rey! Or any variation of that. (I'm a guy. 16.)

I'm going to mainly just rant about things that mean something to me, or that I'm having a probably with. If you guys want me to talk about a certain situation, I'll so that too! (I'd even prefer it, to keep you guys interested.) I am going to post at least one blog a week! More if I'm in the mood!

Hakuna Matata! ✌

(P.S. I'm going to use emojis alot I'm sure, so it'd be beneficial(and alot less annoying) if you have an iPhone and can actually see them.)

(P.P.S. If you have any suggestions about what I should write in my next blog let me know!)